This page has been recently added due to the increasing number of women who are searching out help for what to do after they find their husband viewing pornography.  Recent surveys now show that 70% of Christian men have some level of struggle with porn.  In addition, approximately 20% of women are now viewing pornography for various reasons.  Please review the resources page too, to see the recommended books that can be a starting point.
 
    Many men refuse to make changes because their wives are silent or do not feel confident or strong enough to demand certain behaviors stop.  It is the view of TOTAL INTEGRITY that men need to listen to their wives wishes and put them first.  Many times with sexual issues, sex is the number one need and things like self care, family concerns, and a spouse move down the list.
 
    Women can get help many ways and the best place may to start with a counselor that comes highly recommended by someone who a friend trusts.  The goals are always for health and unity and work the best when grounded in a Biblical framework.
 
    Do not wait to stop something you don't like or fail to act and speak up about something that makes you feel bad either!
 
    Remember, Steve is available through ecounsling.com for getting help.